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 No.9769[Reply]

I turned 30 earlier this year. Birthdays are always highly melancholic for me, as it simply means that I'm one year older and one year closer to dying. However, my 30th birthday is one that I've always especially dreaded. I've always felt like, once I turn 30, I won't be young anymore. I'm truly an adult, whether I feel like one or not. But what does it even mean to be an adult anyways? Quite frankly, I don't want anything to do with what society tells me "adults" are supposed to do. I don't want to get married or have kids. I don't want to be a debt slave and work a job that I hate so that I can spend the rest of my life paying rent to a landlord (or paying off a mortgage). I don't want to partake in the meaningless rat race. I want something more, but I know that there really is nothing more. Life is an endless abyss with no purpose that we were all born to slave away and die in. I really don't know how anyone with a functioning brain can live in this world and not want to kill themselves.

 No.9772

i found some pleasure playing the piano, but idk, is just me, tomorrow who knows, maybe i will hate myself once again

 No.9773

>>9772

There really isn't anything that I enjoy, to be perfectly honest.

 No.9820

Move to the countryside and live off the land as a hermit. Be helpful to your neighbors and be happy. That's my dream ay least. Minimal interactions, just people to think of me and say "Oh yeah, that guy. He's alright."


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 No.9790[Reply]

I really wish i had a big sister someone to care for me and help me get out of the rut im in i do basically do the exact same thing everyday i need to learn to have motivation but i dont have any if i did i feel like i could actually have a life i want someone to help me and give me a push to finally start my life
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 No.9803

>>9791
Elite level reaction image

 No.9805

I really wish i had a big sister someone to care for me and help me get out of the rut im in i do basically do the exact same thing everyday i need to learn to have motivation but i dont have any if i did i feel like i could actually have a life i want someone to help me and give me a push to finally start my life

 No.9807

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i feel like some posts here are aimed at me but i cant tell why. its racking my brains as i try to understand the possible reasons obvious or not. most likely giving too much importanse
>>9791

 No.9817

wish i had a big sister someone to care for me and help me get out of the rut im in i do basically do the exact same thing everyday i need to learn to have motivation but i dont have any if i did i feel like i could actually have a life i want someone to help me and give me a push to finally start my life

 No.9819

sisters suck, but the friends of your sister are fun, theyd spoon with me, and hug and kiss me.


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 No.9762[Reply]

I always hear that women are supposedly more emotional than men, but I can't feel emotions. At all. I have absolutely no emotional response to anything. Whether someone is complimenting me, insulting me, or even outright threatening me, I always have the same response: no response whatsoever. I do not feel joy or pleasure, nor do I feel sadness, anger, fear, or anything else. I can't think of a single time when I've ever cried, not counting when I was a newborn. I didn't even feel anything when my own father killed himself in front of me when I was a child.

What is wrong with me?
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 No.9811

What the fuck happened to this site? This used to be the only imageboard with a civil, mature, and respectful community. A thread like this on here would have never attracted such bitter incel nastiness in 2012.

 No.9813

>>9811
>PICKMEPICKMEPICKMEPICKME

 No.9814

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As much as I enjoy watching a trashfire, this is supposed to be a somewhat serious board.

Discuss the OP in a civil manner or the thread gets locked.

 No.9815

>>9814
>PICKMEPICKMEPICKMEPICKME

 No.9816

>>9813
>>9815
I've only ever seen loser women use this term


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 No.9750[Reply]

What even is fun supposed to feel like? I genuinely cannot think of a single time in my life when I've ever had fun. It's honestly like my brain just isn't wired to feel positive emotions. Nothing is fun. Nothing is enjoyable. Nothing is pleasurable. And, with zero ability to feel joy or pleasure, what reason do I even have to stay alive?

 No.9752

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>>9750
It's a whole entire problem that you can't feel positive emotions and you may wanna fix that or not but purpose doesn't need to be tied to fun or enjoyment, not even to happiness.

Find what you're good at.


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 No.9728[Reply]

I was thinking of getting a new start in life and actually being happy so im thinking of moving to russia i have some money saved up should i do it?

 No.9730

Not sure about just how is an average American getting a visa to go to Russia (maybe through China?) legally and without getting trafficked / deployed to the SMO and slaughtered like a dog. Whoever is organizing for you is more than likely scamming you.

Assuming this is not outright ragebait (which it likely is), I still wouldn't go. Expect to work a lot for barely surviving anywhere (Siberia is a fucking hellscape btw), and I value my basic human freedoms (as I am a very outspoken person)

There is a better option for almost any circumstance. There are much better Slavic countries with gorgeous nature you can build your own little life in. If extremely rural life is what you desire, try Japan, Thailand, or any Asian country with dying elderly population. Even if you are legal enemies with the US, there are still far better countries to exile to.

 No.9731

>>9730
finland too also very good, come to finland… ho ho ho


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 No.9516[Reply]

I'm living a nightmare scenario that's often proposed to neet/hiki "what would you do if your caregiver gets sick?" well, this is what has happened to me and i don't know how much time i have left, but i refuse to work, my aunt i could stay with her for a while. Not sure if my stepdad will still take care of me, he said he would, but you never know.
For the time being, I'm trying to enjoy myself in any way i can until things get worse, sucks because i have no other family. fuck it.
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 No.9700

how are you now?

 No.9701

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>>9700
they died and im now on my own, havent gone insane yet. so im doing better than i thought i would. so uh yeah.

 No.9702

hello anon. are you okay?

 No.9710

*Thumbs


Up*

 No.9723

>>9701

sorry for loss, anon

its good to hear that you are doing good, ganba!


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 No.7914[Reply][Last 50 Posts]

must have and ideal tech setup for neets and hiki.
to start things off, id have to say
-desktop PC
-backup HDD or SSD
-laptop
-2nd monitor for laptop
-CRT for retro games and films
-2nd computer or 2nd laptop for use as media server
-minifridge
-comfortable chair or recliner
-VR
-steam deck
-decent speakers
-mechanical keyboard thatll last
-headphones
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 No.9629

https://youtu.be/qp9SEQkpFsc

 No.9651

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mini-pc arrived hooked it up to the thinkvision monitor now putting linux on it.
other mini-pc ought to arrive on the 14th.
also, im loving my x260.

 No.9666

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i put 4 different distros before using manjaro again, love the keyboard on the x260 it's amazing how different it is from the x280 keyboard.
i ordered an all-in-one monitor it ought to arrive soon.

 No.9667

>>9666
(checking my own digits) satanic trips.

 No.9722

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llol


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 No.9637[Reply]

hey guys can help with some things please 1 stay grounded in reality and not go fucking insane 2 not get panic attacks and intense paralysis and gut pain at merely the thought of getting a job people like everything are fucking gross and frightening for me they just wont leave me alone 3 try think positively i have this feeling im barely worth a thousandth of a cent Thanks
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 No.9644

>>9643
Who are you and what is you ageda

 No.9646

>>9644
I'm a 21 yo long-time resident of this imageboard, currently jobless and I don't have any agenda in particular. I've had some personal trouble with both 1, 2 and 3 and I've developed some coping strategies, that I could discuss

 No.9647

1 Go out everyday for a bit, look out the window often, make sure you talk to at least one person a day (beyond courtesies) IRL
2 Get a easy part time job that you're sure you will do well at even if all other things vary
3 Measure your worth by days left not by days lived

 No.9648

>>9644
You still around?

 No.9721

>>9648
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YfV5kbEq5cE


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 No.9537[Reply]

hi, can someone please help me decide if ita even worth trying to find a job anymore in the UK.this is a big dilemma, i love the uk people qre kind and respectful but im starting to go insane from all the inactivity and job hunting. and i feel ive let myself down for giving up. but i feel like im naturally gravitating towards it

>30
>romanian with settled status
>bsc, masters in IT
>3-4 years experience in IT
>2 in Romania 1 in the UK
>found last job after one whole year of searching but screwed it up
>looking now, barely 5-10 new jobs a day

appreciate any thoughts honest opinions thank you

 No.9714

>>9537
Damn, I was genuinely going to help you since I used to be a NEET crying on uboa a few years ago and now have a job I love making good money that's in high demand… but then I read that you were a fucking romanian. Rot and die.

 No.9716

>>9714
I'm also romanian and I agree with u


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 No.6627[Reply]

I missed out on everything as a kid. I was always left alone by my peers which fucked me up of any social skills in the long run. I still have trouble holding a conversation. Have you guys had any trouble as a kid? This extreme isolation happened from 3rd to 8th grade which was enough to cripple me possibly my whole life. Or what is left of it anyway. Nearly 6 years of my life consisted of going home from school and back. Every day. Never talk with anyone, not even with family. Just me and my thoughts from a young age

I don't want to be like those other anons who just vent out shit here, so I'll ask the question, have you guys went through something similar that had a damaging effect on you? I still feel bits of loneliness from it.

pic unrelated FLCL just makes me feel like shit
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 No.9614

>>9612
Are tu the woman dressed in faded green that just knocked on my door

 No.9630

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>>9612
I miss my job.

 No.9705

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>>9630
Since I wrote this one I got into another hotel and yet again I got fired again. I don't even want to try anymore I just have to be an hero and save the world from me

 No.9706

same here, I was always left out by people my age since 5th grade
now I can't even hold a conversation or small talk without making it awkward with my inability to socialize :(

 No.9707

>>9706
i feel the same, but it's compounded by the fact that all the social circles im in (fag indie rpgs, rock climbing, skating, mtg) attract either ubertards or the most intolerably morose people ever


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